How to Keep Getting It Without Getting Caught
I saw her at the store.
Long curly hair. Light eyes. Curvy in all the right places.
Tatted up, looking like a dream in leggings and a hoodie.
But she wasn’t alone — her man was pushing the cart.
Laughing with her. Playing the role.
But I could see it in her eyes... she wasn’t all the way happy.
And in my head, I told myself:
If she ever gives me a shot… I’ma give her something she won’t forget.
Days passed. Then out of nowhere, she hit me up.
Flirty. Curious.
Testing the water like she already made up her mind.
And when she finally let me hit?
It was better than I expected — and now she can’t stop coming back.
1. Don’t Chase Her — Make Her Come to You
Forbidden attraction starts in silence.
I never made the first move.
She watched, she liked, she wanted.
Let her feel safe. Let her think it’s her idea.
When a woman’s taken, she’s not looking for pressure.
She’s looking for permission — the unspoken kind.
Keep it smooth. Keep it calm. Let her talk first.
2. Make the First Time Unforgettable
The first night? You set the standard.
Don’t rush
Don’t talk too much
Watch how she reacts
Make her feel wanted — not just used
It’s not just about physical pleasure.
It’s about creating an experience that shakes her up just enough
to make her think about you days later… when she’s lying next to him.
3. Learn Her Triggers (and Use Them Quietly)
Every woman has a soft spot.
A certain compliment. A hidden insecurity. A fantasy she never speaks out loud.
If you want her to keep calling, you don’t need to be better than him.
You need to be what he’s not.
That could be attention. Presence. Patience. Dominance. Mystery.
Whatever it is, find it. Feed it.
And then leave her wanting more.
4. Never Leave a Trail
This is where most men mess up.
No screenshots. No receipts. No public posts. No slip-ups.
Use encrypted messages (Snapchat, Instagram vanish mode, etc.)
Delete the thread after
Never go to the same spot twice
Keep your circle tight — no one needs to know
Never joke about it in public
And most important: Never talk.
Men lose women not because they slip — but because they brag.
5. Control Your Emotions
This isn’t love. This isn’t yours.
It’s hers — and you’re just the secret.
Don’t catch feelings. Don’t get jealous. Don’t overplay your role.
Your job is to give her the escape. Not become the chaos.
Keep it cool, casual, and easy to end — and she’ll come back more than you expect.
6. Know When to Walk Away
If her man gets suspicious...
If she starts talking about what are we…
If her stories stop making sense…
Leave.
This game only works when no one gets sloppy.
If the energy shifts, if the vibe goes left — ghost it.
Disappear like it never happened.
Because that’s what keeps it legendary.
Final Word: Forbidden Fruit Is Sweet — But You Gotta Move in Silence
There’s a thrill in the things we’re not supposed to touch.
But if you’re going to live in the shadows, move like a shadow.
Keep her smiling. Keep her safe. Keep it secret.
And she’ll keep calling — when no one else is around.
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